There are 3 different options to meet the financial requirements for the 1 year Extension of Stay based on marriage with a Thai female. (AKA marriage visa)
1. 2 months prior application date a minimum of 400.000 Thb in a Thai bank account on your name only.
If multiple account holders the money is divided by account holders.
2. an Affidavit of income of at least 40.000 Thb from your Embassy in Thailand OR if you Embassy does not provide this service:
at least 12 months of foreign deposits of minimum 40.000 Thb into a Thai bank account on your name.
3. If you work inside Thailand, the work permit, minimum salary of 40.000 Thb showed by 3 months tax and sso payments for you as well as needed staff for work permit.
Foreign ladies married with a Thai male do not have financial requirements.
If you apply on-line for the Non Immigrant O visa based on being over 50 years (aka retirement visa) OR for the Non Immigrant O-A (aka retirement visa) or O-X visa (aka retirement visa) , your wife and your son (if he is younger than 20 years) can apply for this type of visa using the same on-line system