Since I posted the other day about forming a friendship online with a 41 year old Thai divorcee, and wondering, if it got serious, what options I had for being together here in the UK, I have found many guys posting are just being disrespectful to Thai single ladies.
Not every Asian single woman, or gay guy, wanting a relationship with a Caucasian is pretending to love just to get a better life in another country with a wealthy man.
Some, like the lady I am chatting with are genuine. And before you think this 71 yo British guy is nieve, I am not. I can spot a scam a mile off, and my age does not reflect my youthfulness and awareness. I am not gullible.
So if you are attracted to Thai women but have the opinion and attitude that they ALL only want a free ride, then surely you should look elsewhere for companionship or a partner? It seems very disrespectful to those ladies that want a genuine loving, caring and trusting friendship/relationship.
TLDR : Answer Summary
The discussion revolves around the dynamics of relationships between foreign men and Thai women, particularly focusing on misconceptions, stereotypes, and the varying motivations for such partnerships. The original poster emphasizes a genuine connection with a Thai divorcee while addressing negative comments targeting Thai women as solely interested in financial stability from foreign partners. Comments explore different perspectives on relationships, touching upon trust, cultural expectations, and the complexity of motives. Additionally, practical advice regarding visa regulations for bringing a Thai partner to the UK is shared, emphasizing the importance of proceeding thoughtfully and understanding cultural differences in expectations.