how much time have you spent in Thailand already? It might not "feel" as real, coming from a western country, but even if you can't adopt it is not difficult to RAISE kids here, so even if the administration is a dead end- you will be able to Do The Good Thing I am sure.
thanks, yeah I am not as good as ignoring and hitting the block button as I should be.
The concept of taking out of the country is an interesting one and I hadn't thought about it. I wonder if there is a distinction between domestic guardianship and international something something. I'll talk to a lawyer at some point, but am in USA doing a short work thing at the moment.