@Jack ***************
you can use transfers to your bank account, you just can't use that method for the first 1 year extension from the initial 90 day non-O visa.
If you have a job inside of Thailand you can just use proof of your salary I believe. I'm not sure on that though.
If you're on an extension based on marriage, that is not a work restricted visa. You still have to get a work permit before from your productive company before working though.