@Michael *********

tourist, so I can move over to marriage visa.

@Heath *******

Hmm okay, I've done it within the last two years showing only a one day hotel.

@Heath *******

Is that new?

@Brandon ***********

Nope. 🙂 Pretty sure that term can apply to any situation where something is sent or submitted from party A to party B and party be rejects said submission.

I'm wondering if I initially clicked "stay with family" and it didn't save when I changed it (after I remembered the difficulty last time with using a letter of invite) and I don't see a way to edit the app. Do you think I should just abandon this app and make a new one?

@Bob ********

Do you imagine that this might be the sum of my efforts? Or maybe its 9pm and I'm in America and thinking about the situation and this is something I can do at the moment to maybe pull a thread...

Okay "kicked back" is a non technical term, but I think you are being intentionally pedantic. Rather than being approved they have requested additional documents. In this case asking for "Proof of accommodation in Thailand, e.g. Accommodation bookings, invitation letters from family/friends in Thailand: Please upload booking reservation during your stay in Thailand under your name" even though I already attached the document- twice.

@Chris ********************

these are her sister's kids

@Chris ********************

I mean, I'm going to take care of them ANYWAY, it just seems like some things will be easier in a legally recognised guardianship.

@Chris ********************

hi Chris, I think I replied on the wrong line. You are swell. Sorry for misdirection my spicy reply.

You know, this is a conversational environment not a magistrates office where life altering results can occur as the direct result of what gets said. It doesn't make sense for me (or anyone) to give long form information about the situation. So when replying you need to make some assumptions and you can choose to think the question comes from a reasonable person who is looking for more information or that the person is a complete fucking idiot. If you choose to option B- you not only open the door but BEG for the other person to assume YOU are the complete fucking idiot.

Let's try to be helpful- or practice our shutting up skills.