What should I consider when flying with a seriously ill family member?

@Vinson ******

I agree. It is hers. And I object to a third party making it for it. I want to understand the parameters so I can clear the road so she can decide.

@Yvonne ********

I'm sorry to hear that. I am uncomfortable with the word duty. I care about her and want her to be happy for as much of the time left as she has- it could be a week it could be years. But I think a house full of people who are interested in you is a much better way to spend time than an old folks home that you swore you would never go to.

I am confident if there are needs the family can't provide for that services can be hired. Lots of old farang move here, there are multiple hospitals.

@Mike ******

of course, but I am not there to do that and just trying to get an anecdotal understanding. She isn't in hospice, but can't live alone- her balance is gone, her bones are glass, and her judgement is terrible (stubborn and doesn't want to accept she can't do stuff anymore).

She also doesn't QUITE believe we have modern medicine here and conversations with her doctor may be coloured by that- it could even have been a conversation a day after one of the strokes. I just don't know. Hence, looking for input from people who know stuff. Your comment was fine- but you can see mostly I just got assclowns without anything meaningful to say. At least they are outted for the block list.

@Will ***********

I've only heard of that in the context of covid. What would cause an airline to even ask for one?