Think you may be thinking of malaria. Very uncommon. Dengue is not. Many many cases of it. It’s incredibly horrible to get and will have you bedridden for days on end.
In theory there are vaccines for it but I have no idea if they’re effective
All offices will accept a walk in application for an extension. Depending on which office you use you may find making an appointment saves you hours in a queue.
Can’t understand where the application is asking for a proof of relationship. If you’re opting for the retirement (over 50) option then there is no need for any proof of a relationship.
If you chose the “marriage” option then it won’t work unless you are physically married. Proof of talking every day would be irrelevant.