I don't know because I'm still a while away from retirement visa. I just know that retirements vary by province. But you also can't shop around where you'll apply.
As John said, the form you are looking for might not exist anywhere except for the immigration office you use. Some offices have their own forms that don't match what you can find online. And even if an immigration office uses the one you find online, they might still reject it because you printed it on the wrong size paper, or printed on one side when they want 2-sided, or you printed 2-sided when they wanted 1-sided. A lot of times it's better to just get the forms at the office.
The time limit is before your stamp expires. But for a marriage extension you must be able to show 40,000 baht in monthly income through a job in Thailand or embassy certified income. Or show 400,000 Thai baht in your Thai bank account that has been there for 2 full months before you apply.