@Shaun ******
that’s a very intuitive comment! The question is phrased in a way that hope triumphs over fear. All you have with someone you haven’t met is HOPE of a relationship, not an actual one. Let’s be real here and say some of us clung expensively after decades of hope that our marriages would work out. And they still didn’t, so the internet smiling back at you for a second is pure fantasy.
So just be realistic. Feel free to buy her a gift or two once you’ve filtered out the obvious “money crowd” but this is no different to paying for dinner on a blind date in the HOPE of a relationship developing. Just don’t mislead yourself with false hope! That’s more soul destroying than buying a pointless gift.