Anyone in a long distance relationship with someone from Thailand but not met them in person yet?
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This post discusses the experiences of individuals involved in long-distance relationships with women from Thailand whom they have not met in person. Responses varied, with some providing personal success stories of transitioning from online interactions to real-life relationships, while others warned about the risks of scams and the challenges inherent in such arrangements. Participants emphasized the importance of caution, real communication, and meeting in person to forge genuine connections, as well as to validate the authenticity of the relationship.
Rob **********
Fortunately not.🤭🤔
Matt *******
Once you leave Thailand, it’s not your turn anymore 😂
because men will do anything to run away from judgemental, moaning, boring western women… Not the other way around 🙏🤷♂️😂 Only joking with you 😘 He could just be a hopeless romantic, yearning for intimacy… Let him live and learn.
the possibility of variables and probability of odd in favour would be less than dice? As in 0.
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Siddhartha *********
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Eric *******
Bro, SHE is not in a relationship, YOU are.
The number of guys across the planet she might be in a long distance relationship with at the same time will hurt your feelings.
I'm not saying this is necessarily the case right there (chances are very very hight though), but some are specialized in long distance relationships cause they are soooo convenient.
Indeed, long distance relationships do not involved sex, you can easily manage several at the same time, they don't keep you from doing everything else you wanna do on your side, you can entertain them for months if not years, they're easy to start and to end, the number of people you can take advantage of is unlimited, they have no disadvantage but only advantages, you can paint absolutely any picture about your life cause it's totally uncheckable and they have absolutely nothing to lose in it cause they're not investing much.
Wait until you actually make the trip, you'll have more girls to deal with than time will allow you to.
Bobby ********
Here's my photo so you recognise me at the airport
Robert **********
No
Gary ***********
Rawang kaap !
Edward *********
Yes, I've paid her tens of thousands of dollars. She's so sweet, one day I pray to meet her!
Russell *******
Be good to yourself
Rollo ************************
Enjoy the ride— 😂 😂 😂
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Jeh *****
Your chances are much better with a Filipina. You'll discover genuine virgin ladies at all ages (yes all legal ages, and what this really implies..no not sex per-say).
If you really love Thailand more, then bring your Filipina to Thailand and NOT to your home country. She can more easily fly home to visit family also.
In a few months or years, you'll also discover how committed you are to each other. No marriage required, and you financial and we'll being will love you for it!
uhm...it worked for me/us. Time and distance hasn't been a problem.. we managed it together. im working here in Thailand and I am in a long distance relationship with a guy from Europe.. we will meet next month..😁
Terry *********
Nick ****************
You search the database on findmeatwat.co.th
Martin *********
Yeh she works in soi 6 but I've not met her yet. 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
I have. She's really nice. You'll love her! And she's good in the cot too!
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Jhon *******
thousands 😎
John ******
That's hilarious 😂
Ross ********
Why do simps constantly do this? Just wait until you are about a week away from coming here then hit up the dating apps if you are so desperate for a locked in relationship....better advice is just wait till you get here and see what happens....oh newsflash....you aren't really in a relationship with someone you have never met....you don't even know them FFS
Mitchell *******
I was. A mutual friend connected us up. We did the online thing for about 6 months. We arranged to meet on my next trip to Thailand, and we have been a couple for the last 5 years.
But I agree that you should be careful. Especially if she lives in Pattaya.
Kevin **********
Worked out well for me. You just gotta be good at it. Mostly video chat, if they won't, move on.
see how long it is untill they have a big emergency and need money 🙂 £100 say's within 6 weeks
Mark ******
There is an incredibly small percentage of women (and men) in Thailand (as there is in every country of the world) who will prey on men through long distance relationships. But that very small percentage worldwide is very accomplished at juggling 12 or more men at one time and living very well off of those easily fleeced proceeds. These women (and men) are experts at making every single one of those men prey believe that they are the very star and moon in those women eyes.
Here are some pointers:
- If she has told you that you are her sun and moon then take a step back.
- If she works in a bar, nightclub, or the tourist trap scene....then have a extraordinarily long and hard thought about that as these women (and men) are the most professional and hardened of the lot worldwide
- If she has already asked you for money....or has given you some SOB story that has broken your heart and make you want to loosen your wallet at the same time....then RED ALERT! A SCAM ARTIST has identified a potential victim, and is circling your soft Western bleeding heart like a hungry shark!
- If you are in your 40s and older (and especially not that good looking) and she is a virginal 20s or 30s....then the RED ALERT. Do not let a pretty face or a beautiful body make you brain descend to the head of your penis!
_ If there are times that you cannot get hold of her....the RED ALERT...she is with Little Johnny! The latest of many many Little Johnnies!
- Go to Thailand and meet this person and find out more about her. Where does she work, what does she do for a living, does she fit your personality type (and wallet), etc.
- Google Youtube for...."Dating Scams Thailand"...."Thai girlfriend scams"....."Beware: All Single Men Visiting Thailand".....and etc.
- Trust me you are not special! None of us are!
- Never eat the first fish that you find, especially if that fish has willingly gobbled up your bait....get to know people first....and then make a choice! There may be much better tasting and more suitable tasting fishes to your palate and wallet in Thailand.
DISCLAIMER: The vast majority of women in Thailand are good and hardworking women who may make great life partners for you....fish safely!
Hahaha....Never been to Thailand either....so I may be a false prophet. But it is surprising the things you can learn from Mr. Google. Hmmm! Is it a Mr or a Mrs. Google ....or a "Zee" or "They" Google?
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Danny *************
Yeah, you lol
Darren ******
Never going to work... Ask her if she works in soi
Just tell us what your fear is about your so called long distance relationship. Because you are asking this for a reason don't you? I am just asking for a friend while I wait for the answer
that’s a very intuitive comment! The question is phrased in a way that hope triumphs over fear. All you have with someone you haven’t met is HOPE of a relationship, not an actual one. Let’s be real here and say some of us clung expensively after decades of hope that our marriages would work out. And they still didn’t, so the internet smiling back at you for a second is pure fantasy.
So just be realistic. Feel free to buy her a gift or two once you’ve filtered out the obvious “money crowd” but this is no different to paying for dinner on a blind date in the HOPE of a relationship developing. Just don’t mislead yourself with false hope! That’s more soul destroying than buying a pointless gift.
idiot? well the first pathetic you are, it would be a fslta of respect to answer like this on this site, live your life and let everyone live their life as they want. And that's it
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Yahya ***********
😂😂
Roman *******
I could only tell you to be careful if you haven't met in person yet. try to make a video call with that person and dig deeper in that person's life If you already did it, I congratulate you. I am also forming a relationship for almost two months but I take it easy I do not rush things. again good luck nothing is imposible in this world
Matt *********
Probably every 2 out of 3 internet user ! Why ?
Paul *******
I did for six months been with her seven years now it’s been four months of the year there
Paul *******
Not quite sure what’s funny but if it amuses you well done not every Thai Girl is the same someone rob you blind others will respect you love you and only you and take care of you obviously some people I’ve met the wrong ones
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Steve ********
What city she in can always ask if some one mind meeting her. Ie a guy and is wife is a start
Robert ******
You a crazy mofo?
Steve ******
Shes different.
Dale **********
😂😂😂
Cassius **********
This post is not someone asking for advice, they are casting for what looks like a TV show about people in long distance relationships
If you’re already supporting her, there’s already a problem. They can work but take it slow and don’t splash the cash about until you know her properly.
How to say you are immature without saying you are immature
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James *******
Yes, And they are also prob dating someone else in the group. They are experts at long-distance romance. Many have 10-15 guys sending them money.
Jo **********
i would caution you for taking this approach. It can be done but very difficult. I knew my wife very well for 7 years before I asked her on a date. another 4 years as a close couple. take it slow get to know the person
Филипп **********
Robert ********
possible not probable
Dave *******
Probably fine mate. Plus you’ll get to contribute to the welfare of buffalos
AJ *********
Don't get catfished
Victor ***********
It can work however I seriously doubt it. You need to meet in person, unexpectedly the first time so you can see if she has been honest or not.
Nguyen *****************
Jesus Christ and Buddha why is that even a relationship?
Steve *****
I met my girl online in August of 2020. Flew to Thailand to finally meet her in February the next year. Spent a month and a half with her. Flew back home after. Continued and build on our relationship. I finally retired from my career. Now I moved here permanently and been here since February of this year. Best decision I ever made.
yes she exports her product all over Asia and New Zealand. Just finished helping her at a trade show in Bangkok to sell to other distributors here and all over the world. Many big prospects developing. I'm proud of her.
There are many idiots who can not attract a normal woman so they assume its impossible and laugh when they see good men actually find one. I have the same story. My Thai wife is genuine and not greedy. She lives for love just like I do. But morons think everyone lives only for money. Many do but not all. There ARE still normal people out there.
no worries. She is not a poor bar girl. She is educated and runs a very good business and self supported.
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Brandon ************
Don't start the talking/relationship based on money or buying things or that's how the entire relationship will be. Start slow and let it be based on real things.
AxMdob *******
Many scam dude don t do it please don t think with your second little head and respect yourself girlz are on app for scam foreigner
Women's are the same all around the world...
And long distance relationship are for Cuck and simp
what game ? 🤔 then if "all" girls do it sooner have a lot money and not only girls man's can do too it is can be both ways 😂 to be sure have some don't think like that... I think more about how they do to fill in missed in relationship and make happy of both 🤷♀️
but if man not find love in him country but find real love others country is normal to have long relationships 🤔 I don't think that is play about respect
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Garrett ***********
Currently, no. Have I ever put my tinder location in Thailand while I was in the US so I could start talking to girls before I came here? Yes, I have. One word of advice, be carful of Thaifriendly/