you can fly in tomorrow and when your non-o is approved just nip over to nam or loas then come back in on your 90 day visa just print it off to show immigration
I think the family thing is marriage and ya still have to pay and get lots of proof and documents. If this is the first time your girl as been to the UK ya may be better going to an agency.
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