@Stuart ********
To follow up on this.
I just came back to Thailand after 10 days home. I had a very unpleasant 2h discussion with immigration officers in BKK. They wanted to deport me, I had to show my money, bank accounts, condo rental contract, called Thai friends who vouched for me.
Eventually, they gave me 30days and a warning that it’s the last time I enter Thailand with visa exemption or a TR visa. They put me on a watch list and threatened to blacklist me for life if I come back with TR or exempt.
They told me my options now are Elite, work visa or married visa. For ED visa, they threatened to watch me and deport me.
Hope this will help others who might be in the same situation.