and why not!!! not every guy wants a relationship with an Asian, different culture and often language barriers making life so more difficult. They don't even have the same sense of humour and love those awful soaps on TV haha
Unfortunately as a mother I understand your concern but this is happening alot and yes they have tourist visa but are not tourist. Many are staying here long term and have insufficient funds. lack health insurance etc and some trying to work, the reason for the 'grilling'
many people choose not to use them, i prefer to use cash as give myself an allowance every Friday and watch it drop. When finished I stay home! Scan is great but no control!!
They have new promotions constantly rolling so probably you struck lucky. Some banks as you mention have put limits on transfers and some stop use of apps if over 70. Apparently many people in that age group are vulnerable to scams, especially locals so sadly a new regulation