Just wondering your post mentions that you are both in your 20s how can you have military pension which starts after 20 years of service unless you are both 100% VA disable?
that is totally false. If you are from a country, that gets 60 day visa exempt they will give you 60 days that is a policy. It’s not up to the discretion of the immigration officer if you are visa exempt. Never heard of anyone being stamped in for less than what the current Visa exempt stay allows. 30 days or 60 days.