Yes it really can come down to who you get. I just for a TR in KUL Thai embassy days ago. The only surprise for me was being suddenly asked to provide conversion rate for my Australian income showing on my printed bank statement into Thai baht. I had to quickly convert online and write it down. be prepared for anything yo can think of, for ANY visa!
Undoubtedly they do make it very difficult - too difficult yes. It sounds like you were a lone traveler, making it much easier to change directions when it feels easier. I've got husband and child so I hope what i give them is enough. Such a f#$*ing stress! Thanks for sharing...appreciate it.
Oh dear that sounds like a hassle! (⊙_⊙;) Did your booking confirmation have hotels tax info? Was it for 58 to 60 days? Thanks for sharing that little bit extra incase it helps!