I don't believe a DTV can be cancelled but it can be converted to another visa type at your local immigration office. Whether or not your school will provide the paperwork for that is between you and the school. I don't believe you can get the Non-B at a consulate outside of Thailand as you can't have 2 current visas
You would show proof of your business, forget IG, business registration, proof of taxes, some invoices correlates with your business bank account, etc. Plus a letter from your business giving you permission to work remotely from Thailand. You apply and once your DTV has been issued your wife applies quoting your DTV and providing marriage certificate etc
I don't think that's the case. I've certainly had no communication from the bank. I need to go in next week anyway to get paperwork for immigration so will be interesting to see if they say anything
I doubt anyone who opened an account with bangkok bank directly themselves and provided proper verification of their identity at the time will have any issue.