Don't set unrealistic expectations, if you go all out on the first date you set the standard, the second date has to be at least as good if not better and so on.

hmm usually only takes 3 days, thinking they must have flagged yours...

5500 they are robbing you blind

@Gordon ***********

looks nice but already sold out for a couple months away

I appreciate the recommendations so far, i am looking at all of them, some are already sold out, but others seem like good options!

Have a return ticket and reservations for accomodations.

Play dumb, and say "oh its exactly 2 months, so that is 60 days right?" Oh no i made a mistake i thought exactly 2 months was 60 days! You'll probably pay a small fine, or they might laugh and think your are an ignorant foreigner and send you on your way.

Thailand, and philippines almost always get denied visas as they can't prove they have a good enough reason to return home, it happened with my GF before she was my wife, she needed to prove "significant savings" in a phil bank, she had to prove an "above average job" and she had to prove "necessary family ties" that would require her to return home. It's almost impossible unless you are in the top 10 percent of people who are well off there.

@Philip *********

hmm sounds like its ok but nothing special, i'll keep looking for someplace that has a room for 4 and is close to touristy stuff, thanks for letting me know about this one.

A soapy massage parlor, but with western girls, would stand out amongst the asian parlors.