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thanks Todd but received this email from thai consulate Melbourne..
Dear Craig,
You can still apply for a Spouse visa. You can do multiple entries or single entry, either of them can extend in Thailand but depends on the local Thai immigration.
if you apply for multiple entries you can report to immigration every 90 days means you don't need to leave the country but then again it depends on the local immigration whether they are allowed or not.
Please see information below for the requirements.
Non-O Spouse ME
The following documents are required in order to make an application for a Non-Immigrant ‘O’ (Spouse) Visa for Multiple Entries: