okay, if she is marrying an old farang, she is probably on her 3 marriage with multiple kids. She doesn't need to get married, she just wants your money. I understand if she is in her 20s and college educated, then you need to marry her.
You tell him to go back to Cali and find a job since he will make more in America. Next, you make sure he sends you half his paycheck so you can enjoy life here.
I honestly don't understand why anyone would go through hell to bring their Thai gf to a country that is literally worst than hell. England is not a tropical island, the weather sucks and I am not even going to talk about the people. 🤦🏻♂️