Think of a long term plan , do you want to live there ! Do you have money! How old are you and how much you would need , if you don’t have money , how then you need to start a pension and save for later in your life
I would get involved in in sending her to another hospital or paying, unless you have big money , it could cost you millions of baht and once you start you can Not stop , just support the mum with sympathy and her wage for say 6 months
I have been going to thailand for 27 years and I’m 58 years old , look falling in love with a Thai girl is fine , But to be fair you are too young, I have seen it before where you will wast your money and time and feeling, unless you go and live in Thailand , which is very hard for a young man or you bring her home to your country, which will be a new culture for her, if you want to stay with this girl you will be sending her money for years to come plus trying to save at the same Togo and see her , this will not be cheap , you will be fighting with her I’m time because she will ask you for more money later , be smart and think, do I want to keep a woman for years,
I am flying to Qatar for 12 days in a 4 star hotel cost £950 with breakfast , then return back to uk I think i’ll save £500 when all done , but it better then sitting in a travel lodge
I came to thailand in late July for 2 months , nothing open and lock down, I have spent £2000 to get here with flying and ASQ , in the time I have been here is £2000 by the time I fly home and now thailand in the red zone to the uk will cost be £2285 plus PRC , I would tell any body want to fly to Thailand, Just wait unless your have no choice, like having a family or work ,