There's no such thing as a tourist visa on arrival. If your passport qualifies for visa exempt then you'll receive a 60 day entry stamp if you arrive without a visa.
There's no issues as long as the embassy doesn't ask you for proof of your physical location again.
there's no way to answer that question. What one embassy might accept another might not. Each embassy gets to make their own policies on this type of thing.
I don't know because I'm still a while away from retirement visa. I just know that retirements vary by province. But you also can't shop around where you'll apply.
As John said, the form you are looking for might not exist anywhere except for the immigration office you use. Some offices have their own forms that don't match what you can find online. And even if an immigration office uses the one you find online, they might still reject it because you printed it on the wrong size paper, or printed on one side when they want 2-sided, or you printed 2-sided when they wanted 1-sided. A lot of times it's better to just get the forms at the office.