Unfortunately, the French embassy would be your best option. If they are saying they can’t help, then, it might be the case. How do you know that most people only get fined 5,000 baht for this crime? I am sure there is a spectrum of results.
This is what it looks like on most embassy's page: Each applicant musth meet point 1, 2, and 3. Then, depending on which route you are applying via (4.1, 4.2, or 4.3), you then apply those additional requirements.
- As many often say, each consulate has different rules, so Taiwan consulate might have a different policy than others. Suggest that you reach out to them. I believe the examples I have seen came from Indonesia and maybe Laos. What do you mean by “another stable relationship”? If you believe the link you shared above, they state proof as being marriage certificates, birth certificates or adoption paperwork, so that implies spouse our children.
You spouse goes through the same process you went through. Instead of supplying proof of employment/remote work, like you did,
she/he shows evidence that you have a DTV and evidence that you two are legally married, along with all the other requirements (application, photo, fee, bank statement).
- Thai consulates, but not sure in USA or somewhere else. honestly, I have not paid that close of attention. I just know I have seen others mention that they were required to show tax returns. Doesn’t seem to be common, but something some applicants have been asked to supply. Not sure if it is a blanket requirement by that consulate or if they want further evidence of your actual employment.
Four separate applications, so four fees. Also, it sounds like you will need to necessary money in bank account for both you and your wife (1million baht) but not for children.
I have entered Thailand 3 times now with my DTV and received a new 180 day stamp every time. Currently out of the country and will enter again on Friday and can update you then