I have BOA. They send my debit card and credit card to me here. They have my Thai address on file and have even returned phone calls to my Thai number.
it’s the word boyfriend. Same thing happened to us. Mine told the truth about me being her fiancé and was denied in less than a minute. She is a government employee owns a home has two kids. She reapplied the next year after we were married and received her visa. You could always fly her to Mexico and walk across the border😂. Seriously good luck, I know how painful it is.