Milan *******************
@Clinton *******
I thought exactly the same when I arrived 5 months ago..
The way it works: Your partner will get the Non-B visa which will be valid for 90 days in Laos. She will have to let 50% of her visa expire meaning 45 days before she can apply for the 1 year non-B visa.
Once she received the non-B visa 1 year.. her company can provide the paperwork for your application.
So you are looking probably at 50-60 days before you can apply for your Non-O visa as her spouse.