@Justin *******
you have never met the woman, you have never been to Thailand you have no clue.
Honestly do yourself a favour and stop sending money. Save that money and travel to Thailand and hopefully if she does love you she will understand and wait for you but unfortunately I highly doubt it. Try and travel there with someone who can show you the ropes and the do’s and don’ts.
There are plenty of lovely Thai people out there but these scams happen every other minute of the day. As my Thai family have told me many times there is good and bad everywhere.
Do yourself a favour and take some of the advice offered and educate yourself.