Go on your own, tell them you are with your someone. Prepare that they will ask you to call her and let them speak to her. This will work for a while. after many many times.... They will ask you to get marry....
bkk, it square. about 15 days before the end of 30 days. Bring a book to read, it will take hoursssssssssssssssssssss..... about a whole day if it is monday or friday.....
Best hospital in Thailand is Bumrungrad. All doctors and Vets took part of their class in English. Just go slow and they should be able to understand you.