well a friend in udon got denied the +60 days about 4 months ago, I went to Phuket immigration to ask and they said it’s still on, 3 weeks later I go do my usual +60 day and they said that they don’t do it anymore. I spoke with the immigration police directly. Unless it’s back since then (it was 3 months ago) the +60 has been cancelled in Phuket and udon.
go at the immigration and ask if they still do +60 days based on visiting Thai family. If they don’t do it anymore you can use an agency to do it (I paid 8000 with Thai visa centre)