Lease her land for 30 years whatever you do don’t buy her a house it’s a small price for her to pay ( marrying you) to get a new house I’m in same situation and have been here before if she loves you and will understand you not wanting to put in her name or leasing her land through an independent lawyer do not buy in her name otherwise start packing when last brick is laid
All il say is immigration have stepped up scrutiny of passports for first time in July they nearly refused me because my ticket made me leave Thailand after 3 months but I managed to convince the boss I was going loas for a month in the middle they are also checking you have a return ticket
Mate best we can do is work and holiday in Thailand unless you can teach or you want to open a buisness there’s not a lot u can do I’m sure on here we all have same dream and for me I’m up to 4 months in Thailand and 8 months working butt off in uk