Is there a Thai dating app to meet Thai women with normal jobs ? Not freelancers or working girls
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The discussion revolves around finding authentic Thai dating apps for meeting women with regular jobs, avoiding those who work in the sex trade. Some users suggest apps like Thai Friendly, Cupid, and Asian Dating while cautioning that many profiles may still include freelancers. Recommendations are shared to explore personal connections outside of tourist areas, emphasizing the importance of genuine interactions. The dialogue highlights varying perspectives on dating norms in Thailand, with insights into cultural implications and practical tips for building relationships.
get lost. It's always some old white dude with no life who has to respond in a dumb way. Get lost
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Grant *******
Thaicupid it is where I met my wife
David **********
It's called real life.
Phil ***********
Not an app, there is a really pretty country, where you can visit, find loads of nice food, look around, be a normal person and meet some people, vibes and tribes lol 🙂
Elfe *********
I do have a ton of friends who have normal jobs and so do I. Normally we go everywhere even clubs or bars. You need to get to know deeper about thai society. Bkk, pattaya and phuket are tourist places, then go to other cities if you wanna find a real woman.
Hector *********
Most even if genuine are self obsessed & slightly high maintenance & you are a walking $$$ sign to most .
Dylan ********************
Find one at church who puts God first.
江**
It'll cost even more lol
Kessmine *********
Bro it's better to just go over there and meet someone. The dating app is full of scammers and working girls
Chonthisha ************
Idk what is normal for you.
I’m not a worker, all of my friends are well educated and we were on bumble/Tinder dating app….so, my answer is yes!
Gerard **************
Try some sites with "Asia" in the name also.
Anthony ************
No 555
Dain *********
Why go to tf when I'm here 😂😆
Geoff ********
Yes.. But in reality...🤣
Patrick ********
The problem it's impossible to know because they all come across as perfect
John *******
Yes but you need to put the work in they won't be looking for you try the shopping malls the ladies who work in fashion or any retail they have normal jobs bar girls are a dime a dozen and probably a big headache but as the thai girl says it's up to you same same but different
Morris *****
Not sure how old you are, but bumble always did the trick for me. Then again, I know most people aren’t as clever as I am to be able to spot the bad 🍎
Steven ********
Thaikisses
John ********
How about motel staff shop assistant etc
Kevin **********
Thai Love Links now called Thai Cupid or something. Been married 9 years, most awesome woman ever.
I had a free membership on thailovelinks, then few years later I paid a fee to rejoin, I met more than ten legitimate genuine ladies out of as many. My now wife was one of the original contacts. She was too far from Bangkok and I thought too young at 17 years my junior. I’ve been married to her for 12 years now. I have a friend who did much the same and was married six months earlier. It was a great site.
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Joe ********
Don’t get a thai girl with a proper job. You’ll end up married then it starts to cost you big time. Or any girl from any country they all cost a lot more than bar girls if you marry them. 😂
Gregor **********
297 comments - almost a RECORD number ! 🤣😎
Sel *****
All the same. In the profile they writing “looking for true love” and when you ask “how much” they reply with 1500 baht 😆 Others date a new foreigner every week to get freebies and stay in nice condos.
Jo *******
Tinder 😎
Bill ********
No
Mazi *****
This car miles too far then you thought.. . Riding safe 👍
Andreas *********
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Martin *********
Beach Road in Pattaya is the best place for normal girls, they all gather there during lunch hour, trust me, you'll be fine.
Léon ***************
I give you this advice: the regular sites are okay to find a ‘normal’ working Thai girl. But do one thing and stick to it: make a good quality profile about yourself and what/who you are looking for. Then neglect all responses that are obviously from women who didn’t read your profile, who clearly are not interested in you as a person or not qualify with your demands. From the few that are okay, pick one by one (be respectful!) and make video contact with her. Use the Line app.
I did this myself. Used the ThaiFriendly app. Now, after 2,5 years, I am married with a Thai woman from a good family and with a good job.
Forget about all the guys above who just have prejudices about Thai women. Of course there are many examples about the practices of golddiggers. But these examples don’t make a whole truth!
Oleg ***********
OkCupid
TT *************
“We are family” 🤓
Daniel *********
No need for disrespectful comments about thai women. You can definitely find good women on dating apps just like you can find freelancers at universities (nowadays most freelancers have a degree anyways). There is no app where you won't find a freelancer tho since they are like plague on every app, but not every thai woman is one. I'd advise against thaifriendly though it's too crowded with women that do it for money 😃
exactly. I agree. But it’s all hoes there and ladyboys. Just go walk around and talk to people they are friendly
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Tamara ***********
Just here for the comments.. hilarious
Stephen *********
OkCupid is the best I’ve found so far and it’s free to message and chat and you don’t have to wait 10 minutes to send another message 🤣👍🏼
Brian *******
Date in Asia
Otto *********
It is possible, but still very unlikely. It sets the Thai outside their normal environment and is easy misunderstood as her being a "working girl".
Kar *****
If you speak Thai it might be possible to find one.
Psiley *******
Try to be not an asshole maybe
Psiley *******
Reading all those disgusting, biased, judging, misogynistic and racist comments full of toxic masculinity, makes me gonna throw up. You are clearly the bigger part of the problem!
no, it's all good, nocturnal pleasurezzzzzzzzzzzzzzz 😂🤣😂🤣
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RobD****
Even though I did recommend a different app for dating , I did find my current GF on Thaifriendly meet for my very 1st thai date and 34 days later had only been apart for about 20 hours total. It can happen but in reality 98% on TF are freelancers/working girls
Albert *******
Doest matter WHERE you meet them, there’s ALWAYS money involved so like everything else it’s all about balance . The key factors being how she looks to how much money she needs for “help”. The guys here saying they don’t pay anything for their women makes me assume those types of women may not be my type As I prefer being with pretty curvaceous young creatures . In Europe no problem at all , in Thailand ESPECIALLY Bangkok , it can be a challenge to get that for free and good luck all together. But some do
As for the money, I’m not sure. As you have been informed 5 times, I know you can’t read, my wife is an American citizen, votes in America, Thai Citizen can vote in Thai and graduated from an American college and is of Thai descent born in Thailand.
She makes more money than I do. Again, your ignorance precedes your inbred ability to process facts.
Can you beleive that shit Michael? An educated Thai woman making more money than a white guy and sharing children with said white guy.
If you think Thai woman have such low morals, character and are unable to have money without a man…….where does this put you on the totem pole? You must be the inbred dung at the base holding it in place
Lot of these girls are stuck in a situation. “Pimp isn’t the word they use but that is what they are to the girls. I have personally seen husbands and boyfriends be very active pimps. You can still find the occasion fathers right there watching his personal investment bring home the bacon!
Leo ******
Just make a point of talking to 5 to 10 Thai girls every day. Put yourself in different circles. Obvioualy sitting in a bar all day is going to attracted bar girls.. Hanging out in a hospital canteen during lunch will get you drs and nurses.... Start collecting phone numbers and before you know it you'll have that many girls chasing you, you'll be busy AF. Thai women want falang man with stability.. They actually out there looking for you. Thai women don't want Thai men..
Dan *******
Tequila, the ultimate dating app
Kim ******************
Go to the mall 👌
Andrew ***********
If they have normal jobs then surely they are still working?
Gregory *********
There are plenty of genuine Thai women if you want to meet them on all dating apps and in person. It requires acting like a gentleman, being respectful, and treating the dating as an actual relationship and not just trying to have sex with everyone. Good luck
the term 'freelancer' when used in Thailand by Farang means self employed prostitute. It is confusing because freelancer is a general term for self employed people, but in this context it means a sex worker.
You guys are all haters on the bar girls and freelancers. Hey if you have to come to Thailand to find a girl, it means you are damaged goods from your own country. I don't think the girls care about how emotionally damaged you are from you past relationship. None of these girls want to be bar girls or freelancers, they were born in horrible circumstances and this is their way of making a living. I sympathize for them. Please don't think you are better than them. Look in the mirror and be honest with yourself.
you really are dumb. Stop talking for other people. A lot of these ladies love the money. Doesn't matter if you gave them a regular job. They would choose having sex and the easy money. So stop trying to be a hero.
I totally agree many of them are from extremely poor backgrounds and need to support their elderly parents you cannot Farm anymore. In fact people from the Issan region citizenship for many years and I still looked down upon if you think these girls want to be man handled by grotti drunk foreigners night after night then you are insane or stop I can only imagine some of the horror story that they have
100% correct Us Nek, these women only do this job to support family, they put up with smelly fat farang for holiday GF so they can survive, no shame in what they do. Don't waste money on dating sites if you see someone you like working in a shop or hotel simply smile be polite then your half way done. The rest upto you as they say. Enjoy
they still can get a job don't they? like other women here do...they're simply too lazy. And no, men leave their countries in the west because western women are the damaged goods, damaged by the feminism and all that other crap
Give up on the apps and try just talking to someone in real life is usually the best way to meet someone.
Duncanc **********
Grindr
Brian *********
All will be basically the same, loaded with scammers, many even from organized teams world wide.
If they mention bitcoin wallet, run! 🤣
I can only say the amount of people with huge money problems is staggering and playing the long game is something to watch out for.
Chris ****
Depends on your age group and the age demographic you look at.
Dan *********
Good luck pal
Clive ********
Met my wife on Thai match
Jalmari ******************
If she speaks English, she's corrupted by bar or university. Thai universities have turned quite woke already.
Chris *******
I met my dear on FB seven years ago and finally made to Thailand to meet in person. She’s been a correction officer at a women’s drug prison for ten years. She’s an amazing woman and treats me better than anyone in my life ever.
not true. I was on the Army waiting to retire. I couldn’t just pack up and leave and I was still married.
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Sinsiri ********
Try online chatting and vdo call every day for at least 6 months then visiting her family and if she is really genuine she will take you to see her working places . Spending time together please allow her bring friend too for good reputation. Thai woman who from rural country normally respects themselves specially who single and never marry.
Marcus ********
No
David ******
Doesn’t exist. Go back to your homeland find one there and import it back. Best method
Robert **************
Soi 6 pattaya
Craig **********
NO!!!
Andy **********
Is this a Visa or everything else question? 🤣 Go out of your room, open your eyes....have nice women everywhere around...Shopping Malls, Hospitals, Hard Ware stores, Hair Saloon, Diving Centre, Bank, Restaurants, Hotels....and many more places...
Stephen ********
becareful what you wish for
Stuart ***********
Sadly I don't believe the dating app you wish for exists. There is a flip side to this, imagine being a Thai lady wanting to meet a nice farang to marry and using the dating apps, only to find mostly men looking for sex.
I think you can find a nice lady with a regular job on the dating sites, but you will need to talk to them and use some common sense.
First what do you have follow not lady’s from Isaan this cultur have only one way sucking money from foreigners also Chiang Mai
Marek ******
Can use Thai friiendly , tinder , badoo
Marek ******
Important is place where you looking for 😉 no Pattaya no Phuket no hua hin
Tony ************
Try any bank or shops, once they see your bank balance you are quids in.
Em ****
You want to find a serious relationship. Stop using dating apps where you can meet up in just a few moments. Stop looking for it online. Go out and live your life, meet people. If you want to meet good people, you have to go to a good place. You definitely can't find a doctor or nurse in a bar or nightclub, and please don't judge all Thai women by the few you meet.
hope it is a good day for you
Ruby ***********
There is tons of amazing Thai people here everywhere just talk to them, ect.
Jet ******
why do you need apps?just go meet real people out there.like going to gyms or parks.
Jacob ********
Yea, Its called to speak Thai . Those women on those sites I would never trust , Forget about apps , stay away from places like Phuket, Pattaya , Chiang Mai , Hua Hin or any other trashy places that service foreigner, bars, massage shops, or anywhere. Any Thai women with tattoos, speaking bar English, acts strange wants to avoid you because you speak Thai (roo mak mai dee) understand much no good. Dress better than the average sloppy looking foreigner, not hard to do, learn the Thai do,s and don,ts and SMILE. Too many foreigners both men and women with scowls who look miserable here. Don,t copy them.
Bar English lottery words: not a butterfly, good heart, tee rak, darling, papa, etc. Normal girl never use them.
And if she has more than zero farang friends in FB, Line, Tik Tok, etc. RUN!
Jacob ********
I don,t tend to go showing mine off in public. Hey look everybody I have a $$$$ for the week I think I might marry her. When I see foreigners showing off their rentals in public I can,t help but cringe.
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Keith ********
Stop drinking , get out of the tourist area , hang out close to a hospital , or go inside and smile , if they smile back ask them for a real date , don’t be shy . Forget about the apps
All dating sites have bar girls and freelance and scammers. If you find yourself attracted to sites that claim to not have bar girls and freelance and scammers (think christian sites or marriage sites) and you actually believe that kind of marketing then you will end up being a bigger victim than if you just dealt with normal sites. All sites also have real girls too that are not scamming or working at bars. But its up to you to learn how to filter out those girls. Good luck.
Gary ********
Try the old witch test
Ask how much for sex if they don’t answer they were genuine haha
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But as you know, language evolves, and the meaning of words can shift over time. Context matters, so in this case pointing to culture of American type of women, who no longer want equality but superiority.
woke means nothing, which is my point. People are quick to use it but like I said, nobody can actually tell me what it means. Am I woke? Are you? I have no idea, do you?
i will give you a tip to meet normal women try to sign up in any type of classes sport, music, cooking, art, yoga, or volunteer if you are native English Speaker in schools it's good environment .... etc. it's not sure 100% but at least normal environment with normal real thai community 🙃 but this only will work out if you plan to stay long term in Thailand cuse dating take time my friend 🙂
lol what, when did I say I am normal? And why Mr Tourist? I'm married here, one kid and one on the way, have my own house, have had several businesses, oh and 13 years here I've been to Pattaya once, last year for a football match.
I bought my Thai wife off Amazon for the free shipping and liberal return policy.
Kris *********
Just load one of the common dating apps. Ask them what kind of work they do and for how long they have been doing it. If not satisfied with the answer, just skip. Many of the working girls or freelancers don't have regular job.
Shaughn ***********
need to be in country for minimum 3 months for a real girl to be serious and interested. Those with real jobs wont have much time to meet those on a short stay so plan to maximize a tourist visa length at least. Those apps you can usually filter those who have a university qualification so can focus on those girls.
Only worthwhile if your actually in Thailand if your not no real lady will bother normally
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Michael **********
short answer is no. They all claim to be good girls till $ is involved. Thai love thai, if they date with a foreigner is for some financial benefits otherwise they'd date with they country guys
There is that, or it might just beyou. You should look in the mirror and ask, why do these woman treat me with no respect and honesty. But, it is easier to judge an entire country then it is to self reflect.
It's not hard to figure out why you are single, alone, angry and judgmental. I'm sure you will stay that way.
you really can’t read. Pease see the original reply. American citizen, votes in America and graduated from Stanford and has Thai heritage ? Does it get any more western than that?
Or, in your ignorance do you feel the traits of Thais you describes is passed down several generations regardless of circumstances. Lol. I bet your parents are proud of the mental midget they have raised.
dude, perhaps you are the one who doesn't know how to read. OP was talking about thai girls and you mention your partner which is american. Please stop crying here, you are the man, we all know it. did your parents have any children that lived?
lol. She probably likes me for the same reason your last three girlfriends liked me. My heart, compassion and ability to please her the bedroom. Another thing you probably have never done. It wasn’t hard to please them following you and your “girth and height” issues. lol.
I say this with all due respect. Are you the result of multi-generational inbreeding? I have never witnessed a more infantile, ignorant, uneducated, uninformed, all encompassing and stupid evaluation on the females of an entire country based solely on their ethnicity.
I’ll ask again, are you the result of a multi-generational tradition of mother/aunt/cousin relations with your brother/dad/uncle. It’s all starting to make sense now. I get it. You feel inferior and it helps boost your inbred manhood to insult thai woman and it helps your ego to insult men that have a sizable income. Being inbred would make all your inferiority and racist traits fit together.
If you can find and Asian woman or a western woman there is always a sheep that will allow you to put a photo of you and it on you profile pic.
I have never seen an entire board mock one person the way they are mocking you. Lol.
my last 3gfs are 3 ladyboys (and one of them is brasilian). They are totally active. Now I understand the point of your ability to please them in bed. 😂🤣😂🤣
lol. I certainly didn’t Say that. As you have made a point of Micheal, I have a Thai female in my profile pic. Lmao at you. Lady boys aren’t my thing. It’s ok if it’s your thing and it appears they are. But it’s definitely not mine.
You said you've been with my last 3gfs. Anyways, I'm tired of you. You are a winner with a rich american wife who earns more than you. I'm poor, stupid and with issues. But you are still the one trying to point out how great your life is even nobody asked you about. You know what, deep inside your heart, you know the reasons why your wife has chosen you and that really hurts you. I'm done with you, cheers
lmao. And we know why you chose yours. I don’t consider ladyboys girls. I guess you do. And that’s ok. It’s who you are.
She is my wealthy educated American Thai wife. Thats the whole point. You can’t judge an entire population based on your extremely limited interactions. Especially when your interactions aren’t with Thai woman.
However, you should probably stop giving dating advice to men who date actual woman. It’s kind of sad.
sounds like you have to pay for it. I get it. I can’t imagine an attractive woman with a heart wanting to be on your profile picture either. Perhaps you need to focus less on other people’s wallets and more on how you come across and why people
ahahahhahaha, jesus. So the young woman in your profile picture is attracted by your warm heart and not by your wealth? ahahahhahahahhahahahahhahahahahhahahahahahahhahahahahahahahahhahahahahahahahahahahahahhahhahhahahahahhahahahahahhahahahahahahahahhahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahhahahahahahhahahahahahhahahahahahahahhahahahahahahahhahahahahahahhahahahahahahhahahahahahahahahahhahahahahahahhahahahahahahhahahahahahhahahahahahahhaahahhahahahahahahahahahahhahahahahahahahahahhahahahahahahahahhahaha. I repulse women who are looking for money cuz I'm not that desperate to find someone who wants to stay with me cuz of my wealth. There are not just thai girls on this planet, those and the filipinos are the last resort for lonely men and you are a clear example.
u got hurt cuz someone pointed out that a middle age unattractive man who goes to thailand on vacation is mostly likely to meet a hook er who pretends to be a good girl? Try to do that in Japan, korea, taiwan, singapore or hk, countries that are developed and see how many girls would call you sexxy man while walking on the street with your bald head and hairy chest ;)
I’m not sure. However, she is an American so I guess that doesn’t fit your area of knowledge. She graduated from Stanford so I’m not sure she fits your belief that all woman of Thai decent need money and a white man to take care of them.
You are pathetic, ignorant and most likely uneducated. The one thing I think we can all agree on is that an attractive woman from Asia would waste there time with you even if you tried to pay them. Which I’m sure you have tried to do.
ahahahhahahahhahahahahhahahhahahahahhahahahhahahahahahahhahahahahhahahahhahahahahahahahhahahahahhahaha. Yes, I'm pathetic, ignorant and uneducated. Why should an attractive woman waste time on me while there are old men like you with a good heart and willing to get scammed? It's fun to see hundreds of thousands middle age men in pattaya/bkk/phuket/samui being with ho ook ers from bars and stuff but once they get in a relationship, they all say they met her at the library or at the local supermarket. None a single person on this page says that met her wife at the bar. That's against all the odds but anyways, once every blue moon, there are decent girls in thailand as well. The point is that they are probably a very small % but everyone here seems to have find those. About myself, well, I'm going to stand at the corner and cry, your worlds have really hurt my pure soul. Luckily, there are countries that don't belong to the 3rd world and where women got rights...
I get it. You are easily triggered and soft as well. Keep working hard little fella. You can always place the blame of your failures onto somebody. Try reading a book. That will be a good first step in educating yourself. Any book. Maybe Cat in the Hat. If the rhymes stump you let me know. I’ll help you out. It doesn’t matter if it’s a third world country or a world power like the untied states. There is no woman, on any continent, that would want to be seen next to you on your profile pic.
We can agree on that. Work on your personality and character then focus on your wallet. You have a lot of issues little guy.
I get it. You had a bad relationship with a western girl who left you broken and depressed. You went to thailand, probably pattaya and then u found someone who gave u the illusion of being a human again and u've fallen in love that much u need to put her on social media and share that to the world. Same as those hundreds of thousands of middle age men who walk hand in hand on walking street. It's weird that all the men on this page found their loved one in a supermarket and nobody got a bargirl.... ah, I haven't failed so far. Never got married, never got kids. The last couple of thai girl I dated had actually decent jobs so it's possible to win the lottery. But still, it's weird while everyone here on this page claims to have gotten the jackpot...
he was tired of shagging your wife's mom, she asked for big $$$ to send her daughter to stamford so he switched on my mom instead, which was way cheaper
well, at least I know my partners aren't with me cuz of my wealth... Jeez, u are still here discussing and blaming on my sexual preferences 😉 Are you afraid that your young thai wife is in love with your wealth and not with you? Where did you meet her? at the
you won't know about this, but every where in the world, when you marry A Lady, they expect to be looked after and supported, when the men amongst us have children, they have to be supported to,iv been married twice in the uk to LADY'S by the way, it's a lot cheaper here in Thailand with my daughter's and WIFE, she's a LADY by the way,
So you go about your 9 to 5 job and leave the living the good life to those who can,with our thai families.
does it hurt your feelings knowing that thai girls are attracted by middle age foreigners cuz they need a financial stability? Just a second choice cuz the thai guys who were in first place kinda didn't care about her
😆 🤣 😂. Not at all. You will be older sooner than you think. Get married and divorced to a western one, lose a shit tonne. Hopefully you have maintenance as well. Then you will grow up. What a tosser you are. 😆 🤣 😂
I'm almost 40, never got married, no children. I live in taiwan and I date with girls who studied abroad, who got good jobs and are financially independent (besides of being much well educated and better looking than thai). I saw hundreds of men in love like you who think they've found an angel who is
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yrs younger and fall in love again after a previous sh it ty relationship with a western girl. Again, it's all love, blossoms and happiness as soon as there's money for her "stability". Once the money is over, they'll move as fast as they came
well you will have plenty of "stability " to offer. You are a sad narcassistic person unable to have real relationships, it is very obvious. You will be lonely , 70, and in Asia eating your words. It's laughable
Better still, marry a western one and be really taken.
I am well aware of my life. You are a selfish person quite happy to display your narcassistic personality.
oh, I've learnt that being single is better than being in a toxic relationship. Your should know that from your previous marriage but now you are still on honeymoon, u need to put her picture even in your facebook. Why should I get one of those ladies who will have a relationship with me just for financial stability? And what's the reason a decent looking girl gets a middle age man with a failed marriage and
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kids? Never mind, I'm very glad to hear how happy u are in your relationship, I'm very happy with my situation tho ;)
the japanese do it cuz they are curious, thai cuz they've heard that a farang boyfriend is like winning the lottery. If you speak thai and you listen to what actual thai people say (even on tv drama/show), they have spread the concept that western guy bring wealth to the whole family. On the other side, japanese are wealthier than 90% of the world
like the kids with no friends at school who need to go run around the whole institute to point out something to the guy who got everything so that they can make themselves feeling better.
I have never met a Thai woman who admitted being in the slightest bit at fault in a previous relationship. And when a Thai woman says she doesn’t like Thai men that is a bit of a red flag.
I was here for my studies and I haven't left since then. Asia isn't just thailand or philippines but most of the folks here think so and they are whining that they've found their wife in harvard or cambridge. It's weird that they barely speak a single word of thai, they were in thailand for a short holiday but they still managed to find wealthy women who are
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yrs younger than them who fell in love with not attractive middle age men, with a broken marriage but with a decent/good wealth... It's also weird that there are hundreds of thousands of bargirls who get in a relationship with white folks but nobody on this page has ever done that ;)
I understand exactly what you're saying dude I lived there for almost 10 years I am unfortunately divorced but I have a beautiful 8 year old son that I'm very proud of. I have no problem with the bar girls some of them do have good intentions but some are struggling with addiction or some other issues. I don't care what background any of the women have but at least have to have good intentions and to be honest. I hope everyone can see the positive in all situations too
needs to remember that sheep and goats do not count. The goats Singapore, Taiwan, Korean, Vietnamese and even Thailand are still sheep. You can’t get a good gauge on how the woman are when you are spending time with sheep Michael.
to true he's a arse hole had a few run ins with him b4 for pulling thai people down ,he s not old enough to have any experience in Thailand, his mam is still wiping his arse, he's a propper prick
that's the point, they get a farang boyfriend cuz they get benefits. I've been around thailand for over 20yrs, their mentality is completely different from ours but you still believe that your gf loves you for who you really are and not for other reasons. Tell your gf you are poor and you can't support her, let's see how long your honeymoon will go ;)
I repeat, asia isn't just 3rd world countries. Try to go to japan, korea,taiwan and singapore and see if you can get any female partner while on vacation. Thai women are trying to escape from poverty so they won't care much about age/previous relationships and so on. Not cuz they are good girls with a good heart but simply cuz they got no better choice.
ok, you have a point. I shall be just the only lucky one then who married a Thai woman for almost 10 years and still need to give her my first dime. As a matter a fact, she makes more money then me.
I've been in asia for over 20yrs, I've dated with singaporean, japanese, korean and taiwanese the most. They have never made the relationship a money thing. With thai is the opposite, before or after, money will come up. Not a twisted long term farang, I've seen dozens of friends' wives cheating or leaving for a poor thai guy who also got benefit of this situation. You are so in love that you have to put her picture even on your profile picture, how could you sober enough to understand that stability is just the money u bring to her pocket
One of the biggest mistakes I see foreigners do in Thailand, is brag about their money. If the subject comes up, I always say I'm a broke "Cheap Charley."
Not just a strong second, but I’ve seen “bar opening possibilities” popping up quite often now.
Opening any bar goes by the same three year rule that restaurants have - first year loose lots of money, second year loose money, third year loose/make no money. If your not bankrupt for the forth year = you’ve got a business.
It’s simple math and that’s how it works everywhere.
And again not learning Thai. If you understood Thai there would be far fewer problems besides majority of bad ones will avoid you. No dodgy Thai wants a smarter than average foreigner hanging around.
Bar Girls have a significantly less chance of a meaningful relationship than girls that are educated and not in the bars. They lose their souls after a year or 2 and just look at men as walking ATM machines.
Like Paul Joseph said avoid places like Pattaya Phuket tourist areas there are genuine good ladies to meet you will no doubt recognise the good and the bad by their how much you give me
My bestie is a beautiful and charming family-oriented traditional Thai lady. I’ll share her contact, if you PM. Not promising she’ll be interested, like most real Thai girls she’s not desperate.
Bangkok events group has regular meetup events that are 300 baht each. They’re all normal girls. You might try the Boring Club events too.
that's the biggest bullshit I've read in a while, stop finding wifes in phuket or pattaya 🙄. It's really not that hard...
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I lived in Thailand for 20 years I never ever looked for a wife and the tourist areas I married an accountant...... And I still got fleeced......... It will happen to you eventually
Yeah ,genuine gold diggers …. 🤣🤣🤣 if they don’t ask for money directly , then they’ll find other creative ways to use you or they’re NOT meeting . Period
I would not touch anything in any tourist areas PERIOD! Thankfully I can spot a working girl miles away. They are great for one thing bang and toss. Otherwise move on if you are serious.
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