There are some great gals out there. You just need to take care. Understand too the culture is very different. That said I got lucky you can too. All the best!
I have Fidelity account too. I’ll bet you already use My Voice Verify. Leave/get standing wire orders with them before you leave. If you have a Skype local number there you can just call in anytime and initiate a wire to your bank here in Thailand. Easy and cheap.