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What is the process for obtaining a U.S. visa for my Thai spouse after a proxy marriage?

Jul 11, 2025
3 days ago
Brandon *************
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Hey I just got married to a Thai national and I’m currently in the process of trying to get her visa and green card to move with me to America. I am in the military and we got married with proxy online and I’m in the process of getting signatures so the marriage certificate can be recognized in Thailand as well. Does anybody know the process or how I got about doing her visa to get her to move with me?
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The discussion centers on the process of obtaining a visa for a Thai national spouse of a U.S. citizen, specifically after a proxy marriage. Key points include the types of visas available (CR1 for those married less than two years and IR1 for those over), the need for a valid marriage certificate recognized in both Thailand and the U.S., and advice on dealing with bureaucratic challenges at the embassy. Several commenters share personal experiences and recommend steps such as contacting the embassy, hiring a visa agent, or utilizing veteran assistance, while expressing concerns about current immigration policies.
Jay ******
Move to where?😂🤣
กะลาสี *****
I wish you good luck. Getting your non-US spouse a green card to live with you in the US was challenging before the Dear Leader became POTUS on Jan 20th. I'd wager it's damn near impossible now.
James *******
@กะลาสี ****
I agree that it is a tremendously difficult mission, I would wait for the next administration to give a try
John *********
I married my Thai wife 36 years ago in the US on the K-1 visa. We didn’t change her last name. A few years later, I changed my last name to her last name.
Matthew *********
@John ********
that's actually pretty cool. Not many men would ever do that
Chris *********
As someone who has actually done this I urge you to consider not getting married until ur your partner is in the USA the process is much easier
Brandon *************
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@Chris ********
what visa did you use for her and how long did it take ?
Chris *********
@Brandon ************
i renounced my us citizenship long time ago, originally I got a fiance visa it was faster than martiage
YT ********************
Why do you want to do it to her?
Chris *********************
Go to your embassy and register your marriage that's 1st step
Jeffrey *********
You are of course free to go through all the steps to get the marriage recognized in Thailand if that's important to you, but that's irrelevant to the US visa process - the marriage only has to be legal for US immigration purposes.
Brandon *************
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@Jeffrey ********
is this true ? Even so how does this work because she is taking my last name and as of now how can I start the process if Thailand does not allow her to change her name on her id and passport without those signatures on the marriage certificate to match what the U.S has her listed as ? Or does that even matter.
Eric **********
Join this group. Super helpful. Be detailed oriented in all paperwork! Consistency is key.

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Jeffrey *********
9 FAM 102.8-1(D) Proxy Marriages

(CT:VISA-1774; 05-24-2023)

A marriage where one or both parties was not present (proxy marriage) is not valid unless the marriage was consummated.

(1) Consummated: For the purpose of issuing a visa to a “spouse,” a proxy marriage that has been subsequently consummated is valid as of the date of the proxy ceremony. A proxy marriage consummated before the proxy ceremony is not a marriage for visa adjudication purposes unless it has been consummated subsequently.

(2) Unconsummated: A proxy marriage that has not been subsequently consummated does not create or confer the status of “spouse” pursuant to INA 101(a)(35). For IV cases, a party to an unconsummated proxy marriage may be processed as a nonimmigrant fiancé(e). A proxy marriage celebrated in a jurisdiction recognizing such marriages is generally valid another marriage in the United States is not necessary if the applicant is admitted to the United States under INA provisions other than as a spouse. See 9 FAM 502.7-3(B) for additional information on fiancé classifications.

9 FAM 102.8 FAMILY-BASED RELATIONSHIPS
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Amy **************
Please be careful bringing a melanated person to the US. Multiple military members have had their wives illegally seized and deported - one of which had a newborn baby! They have been taking white immigrants as well. If you care about your wife, please don't gamble with her safety. 🙏
Jeremy ******
@Amy *************
your full of bs.
Amy **************
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Amy **************
Multiple news outlets are covering it

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Amy **************
What a mature and competent response...
Amy **************
They just abducted a disabled latino service member during a raid.
Marc *****************
Good luck,unless she is of white,Christian descendant the GOP and MAGA hypocrites will not want her.
Andrew ********
If you are married and military ( if in US military) you will update your info in deers to show marriage and process family move there as well for visa you will have to go through state department to get her visa process.
Chris *******
I’m an American citizen. I already got my wife a green card.

In fact, we didn’t wanna live there so we turned it in and reapplied for the B visa and got it

I’ve been through the entire shit show my friend p.m. or ask any questions you need
Bob *********
Open your web browser and start filling out forms and submitting at https //USCIS.gov
Chuleeporn **************
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Kevin **********
@Michael *********
I assumed since you posted it on a Thai Visa thread that she is Thai
Michael **********
@Kevin *********
no. Just a statement about the ongoing trials of immigration in this country. Immigration has been a mess for many years and administration after administration have failed to fix it. And now the current administration is doing its best to kick out virtually all immigrants.
Kevin **********
@Michael *********
Because they want it this way. Undocumented immigrants paid over $100 billion in taxes thru FICA in 2024 of which they never will have any access to. That's a win/win as far as the government is concerned.
Michael **********
@Kevin *********
based on that logic, why remove them? Then the money will not keep flowing in. It stops. I don’t have an issue with deporting illegal immigrants that have committed a serious crime. Many immigrants perform jobs that Americans are unwilling to do themselves. They work harder than 90% of Americans. Most are just looking for a better life and a way to provide for their families. How many Americans are willing to work in the fields harvesting crops? How many Americans are willing to shuck oysters and break down crabs and shrimp on the docks? How many Americans can cook an ethnic dish and serve it in a restaurant. America has become a country of consumerism. There are still some pockets of Americans that do perform laborious jobs. But it is far and few between. History is clear. Immigrants have notoriously done the hard labor jobs that support the American economy. Think back to the slaves brought here. Think back to the Chinese brought here to build the railways. Think back to all the Irish and Polish that came and worked in factories and farms. The list goes on and on.

I am an American. I am a consumer. I rely on immigrants to feed me, clothe me, take care of my yard. Why? Because they can do what I cannot.

For the OP, I wish the best. I am just not a believer that this current administration will be helpful. My personal belief is that this administration is racist, bigoted and misogynistic.
Markie ******
@Michael *********
no logic how i see it.
Steve ****
@Markie *****
“no logic” is the administration’s motto
Kevin **********
@Michael *********
Concur. A dependable low wages renewable yet expendable workforce is a valuable asset and one that makes America the envy of most countries.
Eric ********
Ask your squad leader 🤣🤣
Adri****
@Eric *******
I was going to suggest something similar.
Eric ********
@Adri****
Your a troublemaker also I see 🤣🤣 Great minds think alike.
Scott *********
Hire visa agent 5000.00 usd
Brandon *************
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@Scott ********
thought about this but the visa agent does not excuse the waiting period from what I know
Bradford ******
@Brandon ************
No, no and no! They cannot get a visa through the US Embassy.
Michael **********
Good luck with this administration. They recently deported a wife back to Australia, who was visiting her military husband in Hawaii. This administration is racist.
Melanie **************
@Michael *********
I didn't realize Australia was considered a "race". Especially since there are aborigines which are very dark skinned compared to other Australians. Quit looking for turning everything into a political rant. It makes you appear as if you have a very low IQ when you cannot differentiate between actual racism and politics.
Michael **********
@Melanie *************
and another thing. I never mentioned the wife’s race. I said where she was deported to. It was never about race. It’s about immigration. Something that America was founded on. Unless you are purebred American Indian, you and I and everyone else is an immigrant or child of an immigrant. Let you brain think about that for a moment. And see who has the low IQ.
Michael **********
@Melanie *************
the GOP are the ones trying to erase history and anyone of color. The GOP are the ones trying to dumb down the education in this country. The GOP just passed a law to give 83 people a tax break so they could take food and medical care from millions. Those of us that have a brain and can think can see for ourselves the harm caused by this administration. Those too stupid to see otherwise, just want to believe conspiracies. The GOP want everyone to be stupid so they can be led like sheep to the slaughter. Better to be woke than stupid.
Eric *********
@Michael *********
Racist against Australians? Why don’t you respect others and not bring your hysterical opinions to a non-political discussion.
Michael **********
@Eric ********
never mentioned race. I just pointed out that this administration doesn’t want immigrants coming here. UNLESS they have a lot of money or really white, IE: South African whites.
Eric *********
Michael De Mouy get a grip man! The very last word of your OP is “racist”. Again…there are plenty of other places on Facebook to talk politics.
Cris ******
Curious how this goes. I'm an American married to a thai. And ive been told the visa situation is rough right now. I tried to get her a visitor visa a while ago for my brothers wedding and was immediately denied.
Eric *********
@Cris *****
Unfortunately, overstays have ruined it for honest people.
Cris ******
Yep. The part that pissed me off though. We spent so much money to drive all the way to bangkok, get a hotel, pay the fee for the "appointment" gathered TONS of paperwork. The agent was extremely rude to my wife, didnt look at a single piece of paperwork and had about 2 minutes for the "appointment" Gave no reason for the denial. For a country that makes you pay over seas taxes to the country... the services we get are pretty crap
Wylie *******
@Cris *****
that's completely normal unfortunately, especially at the Bangkok embassy. I'm curious, were you already married when you applied for her tourist visa? My wife had applied for one prior to us getting married and was instantly denied. She was told to apply for the k1, despite us having just met. After we were married she applied again, this time in Chiang Mai. On one of the freeform answers to one of the online questions I explained that I now live in Thailand, with no intentions of moving back, so did not want or need to apply for a CR1. That she only needed the visa to visit the US once a year for less than a month at a time. Not sure if that helped, but she was granted a 10 year tourist visa.
Cris ******
@Wylie ******
ya. Married for more than a year. Have land and a business together, had been to Japan that year as well. But ya I'm in the same boat. We live here and I never intend on going back and it was a short notice kind of thing. So any of the long term visas had like a year plus wait for an appointment.
Cary ******
Www.visajourney.com
Benjamin *********
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Real **********
Where do you live? If you live in TH now and you can show your orders to return to the USA, with supporting docs to the Embassy (with a legal marriage cert from the US, which Utah allows for virtual ceremonies) you can expedite the process and get her over on CR1. Send me a PM. I was able to get my foreign ex-spouse approved for interview within months, versus years.
Eric *********
Following the conversation out of curiosity. I’m a retired GI and did the same thing 37 years ago…hoping you and your new wife also enjoy a happy marriage.
Bradford ******
If you're a U.S. citizen married to a Thai national and want to bring them to live permanently in the U.S., the CR1 and IR1 visas are the primary immigration pathways to consider. These visas fall under the category of immediate relative visas for spouses of U.S. citizens. CR1 Visa: For couples married for less than two years. Your Thai spouse will initially receive a two-year conditional green card upon entering the U.S..

IR1 Visa: For couples married for two years or longer. Your Thai spouse will receive a 10-year green card immediately upon entering the U.S., bypassing the conditional residency period.
Brandon *************
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@Bradford *****
what are the steps to take for that ? I’m currently married to her legally for America but in the process now of getting the marriage certificate signed by the Secretary of State, department of state and finally the Thai embassy in Washington for the marriage to be legal in Thailand and for her to name change etc. but after this I have no idea what visa she needs and the fastest one because as I stated I am a soldier and can’t just up and leave to see her at any time and from a few people I know they told me marriage visas and a few others have a 12-36 month waiting period for approval which is insane for me to not see my spouse.
Bradford ******
@Brandon ************
Did you fill out the K3 VISA application? Have you filled out the I-130 application with the National Visa Center in Portsmouth, NH? K3 visa (Nonimmigrant spouse)

The K3 visa is for couples seeking faster reunification while the I-130 is pending. It allows your Thai spouse to enter the US and apply for adjustment of status while waiting for the I-130 approval. Your spouse can live with you in the US and apply for work authorization. The process involves filing Form I-130, then Form I-129F (no fee for K3), processing through the NVC, your spouse completing Form DS-160 and attending an interview, and finally, upon arrival in the US, filing Form I-485 to apply for their green card. The average processing time is around 19 months, but may not be significantly faster than the CR1 due to I-130 processing times. Costs include filing fees for Form I-130, Form DS-160, a medical examination, and Form I-485, along with other potential costs. You wife will have to go through an interview at the US embassy in Bangkok. There are online examples of the questions they will ask and she needs to study them.
Brandon *************
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@Bradford *****
I will send you a pm that is a lot to unfold I want to go step by step and as of now yes we are married legally in America but I still need signatures on the marriage certificate for it to be recognized in Thailand for my wife.
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