Since I posted the other day about forming a friendship online with a 41 year old Thai divorcee, and wondering, if it got serious, what options I had for being together here in the UK, I have found many guys posting are just being disrespectful to Thai single ladies.

Not every Asian single woman, or gay guy, wanting a relationship with a Caucasian is pretending to love just to get a better life in another country with a wealthy man.

Some, like the lady I am chatting with are genuine. And before you think this 71 yo British guy is nieve, I am not. I can spot a scam a mile off, and my age does not reflect my youthfulness and awareness. I am not gullible.

So if you are attracted to Thai women but have the opinion and attitude that they ALL only want a free ride, then surely you should look elsewhere for companionship or a partner? It seems very disrespectful to those ladies that want a genuine loving, caring and trusting friendship/relationship.

Are there ant specific gay sites. I might be in the minority here but I can't find any websites or groups that are target to gay men only. Like best clubs interest groups, places to eat etc

My wife's aunt is very lonely and wants help meeting someone. I believe there must be websites for older people seeking legitimate partners instead of sites for young people to hook up. But I don't know what they are. Does anyone know a website a Thai lady could use to meet someone who wasn't only after sex?