Since I posted the other day about forming a friendship online with a 41 year old Thai divorcee, and wondering, if it got serious, what options I had for being together here in the UK, I have found many guys posting are just being disrespectful to Thai single ladies.

Not every Asian single woman, or gay guy, wanting a relationship with a Caucasian is pretending to love just to get a better life in another country with a wealthy man.

Some, like the lady I am chatting with are genuine. And before you think this 71 yo British guy is nieve, I am not. I can spot a scam a mile off, and my age does not reflect my youthfulness and awareness. I am not gullible.

So if you are attracted to Thai women but have the opinion and attitude that they ALL only want a free ride, then surely you should look elsewhere for companionship or a partner? It seems very disrespectful to those ladies that want a genuine loving, caring and trusting friendship/relationship.

Do Thai ladies like to get married quickly? Or is it just quick by western standards?

I have a question for the expats living in Thailand? From my observation and experience, is it common for wives to basically disregard their husbands, and carry on almost a single life? But still act as married? I have noticed Thai men who seem to always be waiting for their wives? I have also had this happen to me, although I am not married, or in a relationship! I am not suggesting anything is going on, but I was wondering why any man would bother, as it seemed he is really single? Please just constructive feedback, if possible?

There's a lot of younger guys posting on here now that's good.

But some of these people have had a couple of weeks holiday Pattaya or the islands,

Then they come out with a load of crap,pulling thai lady's or people down ,if a person puts a genuine post on give a genuine answer, don't go trying to make a joke of it,ie sick family, sick Buffalo, go get ya mam to wipe ya arse ,you know who you are .

Thanks rant over,

My wife's aunt is very lonely and wants help meeting someone. I believe there must be websites for older people seeking legitimate partners instead of sites for young people to hook up. But I don't know what they are. Does anyone know a website a Thai lady could use to meet someone who wasn't only after sex?

Hello, does sinsot (dowry) still happens in Thailand, even among the modern Thai women?