Anonymous participant You broke their rules, so don't be surprised if they're upset with you. It would be a different story if someone disrespected you, but your "family emergency" whatever that means, is no excuse. You had ample opportunities to get things done the proper way.
Book an earlier flight next time...1130pm is a dreadful time to arrive in any country. Imagine people having to stay out super late to pick you up. Some smaller hotels won't accept guests arriving at that hour (or by the time you get into the city it would be 1am).
Yes and no. Many provincial offices are strict. Bangkok is a good place for a license renewal on a DTV. 5 years is possible except at the Bang Chak office (which sucks anyway as they require you make an appointment and you have to wait several months to get one).