I see. Well get her out of Cali. Life time alimony after just 10 years of marriage. Once they find out from a friend it's game over for you. My son is in shitty wisconsin thinking he won't get divorce raped too some day. He's gonna show me how it's done, marriage forever. Eeeesh. Which is worse?
What does Koh Vidiot insurance cost these days? Probably cheaper than car insurance no? Since you have a greater chance of injury and death in the auto.
People have been known to walk across the Burma border but not recommended. Why do you want to escape the US? Wife going crazy? Take her south to warm weather and sunshine.