I agree especially as I’ve had to support my son whilst he’s been in the army doing national service on a derisory salary. He was learning to be an electrician before he went in.
Ok thanks seems bizarre as they don’t stop being your kids at 20 lol. Anyway I’m divorced and I haven’t got 20k to sit in a Thai bank. I guess if I come for 6 months I’ll just do visa exempt and extension twice leaving for a few weeks in between.