so why Mary, if your a teacher you have the best chance to work in Thailand. I don't get it, you married a thai why, find a solution not a reason not to. You dont have to be rich to be happy. If legit people can get a visa, just have to tick all the boxes. Not sure why people want to marry a thai and move them, my reasoning would be to be in Thailand.
only problem with telling DWP and giving your account is, don't they freeze the yearly increase! I know they did to friends in France a few years back. I'd get paid in the UK and handle my own affairs