@James ******
yeah I get what you mean. In western culture our tone would be seen as less threatening. However I speak Thai fluently and translating that question directly to Thai sounds very bad. To be honest, I don’t even know how you could ask the authority if everything is alright without it sounding suspicious or not good. In Thai culture it is more about respect to authority.
I can’t help but wonder if something popped up that she had to deal with that wasn’t related at all to you but you were left just standing there.