@Joe *******
Sorry for possibly offending you and for what seems like a lack of compassion. My response was mostly to the person that I replied to. Having a child outside of marriage in one’s own country is one situation; in another country thousands of miles from home where no concessions are made for English speaking foreigners is completely different. Other replies have offered suggestions and advice.
By the way, you are correct about me not having a girlfriend. My wife (Thai wife) and children and grandchildren will not let me have one. Thank you.
Chok Dee.
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