Sorry to hear of your plight. You will also find poor information from "experts" on this site as well. I find a lot of good information on this site but still go to the Thai Embassy site to check.
Are we discussing extensions to an existing visa or a new visa which is what I read. It's important to be clear for the benefit of first timers wanting to retire to Thailand.
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