Tony Handley Your welcome . I am from London but was last living in Hove next to Brighton. I now live in Thailand as I have retired. I left the UK just after the first lockdown was lifted.
Are you working or have things to occupy yourself ?
Rain season here , I imagine there a fair bit of rain in Sheffield ? 😃
So sorry for your situation. Having lost all my family and had cancer myself,I understand your situation as much as I can. Your feelings sounds normal to me , it will just take you time to process what has happened.
From what you explained it sounds like she was already in that situation before arriving in the UK. The beauty is that she came to see you .