@Mark *******
yes, Christmas and birthday presents, you don't buy anything for your partner? Doctors appointments I already explained above when you questioned me, that figure is the exact cost for my daughter's vaccination and check-up appointments, it does not include mine or my partners costs as they are sometimes nothing per year. Coffee, yes coffee but you'll also see (must be your selective reading playing up again lol) in front of coffee it says 'outside activities/coffee' for ฿3000, so I've probably underestimated on that for someone that enjoys a coffee at a Cafe etc each morning and that's without considering the outside activities part, but for my family (it is my budget after all), yes it's about ฿3000 as I only get a coffee on the days I go to the gym, so roughly
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times per week. The outside activities part could be anything but in my case it's usually paying for an hour at a play zone etc for my daughter every few days. It also includes the expenses I incur when going on a ride with a group where we stop for lunch etc. So no, the figures aren't plucked out of thin air, they are taken from averages over years of living here. Again on the retired thing, I am also retired, and again as I explained above, if you're an elderly retired person you'd probably need to actually account for more expenses than a younger retired person due to medications, more expensive insurance premiums etc. As to the ballpark figure, the OP has certainly received that, mine and the other 60 commentors have all said about $2500, well except for the 1 individual comment which said $400 per month lol.