visited bangkok 4 years ago, met up with lovely lady visited her village in sangkha and stayed in a good hotel (malinee)just before covid.kept in touch with lady via skype throughout lockdown 2 years later i visited and married i am self employed and retiring early next year and have bought a plot of land with a view to build(i know i cannot own the land)i have had the land raised and nearly ready to build ,have approached two builders and chosen ,shoud i start work now or wait till i move to thailand ?