@Michael *********
l can see your point and there's always the risk that she's having sex when l not here but that works two ways and that's why l like to be with her more l had a English cheat on me and l was with her most of the time so if she's going to cheat on me that's her choice but she is good to me when I'm with her the time we are together is amazing and she makes me feel young again and at my age that's good l always thort l be spending the last part of my life with an English woman but that's not worked out for me so tel me what l got to losse and if it works out l get to be happy and if not l find another thai girl the one thing l got is a way to make money in the UK and yes im old and ugly but money open doors and relationships are about what you bring to the table and what she does but l didn't ask if its OK for me to be in a relationship l asked the best way to get a visa to stay in Thailand longer than 30 days how I'm with is to be Frank is nothing to do with you