Jo with all due respect , by writing all this detail you've probably red flagged yourself , but seriously mate it is just luck that you have been able to get though .
Plus , if you are coming this often I'd get the correct Visa it's easier ..
55 , that's what the world should be doing , certainly would do many some good , that for sure . That's not the case in Malaysia many healthy choices , then still most of the Western crap .
Thankyou for sharing the experience , is it 80 k US each ? I'm probably right on the cusp income wise , but I'd be interested in this visa , are there other options ?