Bangkok Bank stopped allowing foreign tourists to open accounts since beginning of the year. Only people holding retirement or non immigrant visas are now able to open an account. Thousands of accounts opened on tourist visas have been blocked. Bank clients are being asked to come into the bank to sort out the situation. Without a long term visa funds are to be withdrawn and accounts closed.
You will need to get your affirmation of freedom to marry translated and then legalized at the MFA in Bangkok. Go see Maneerat on Soi Post Office Pattaya and ask her to provide the service. You can then compare that against having to do it all yourself with time and expense of getting to Bangkok and maybe having to stay overnight.
People spend 75k to leave? Who leaves every month on a DTV? Your argument is utter nonsense. As stated the DTV has made the Elite program a dead duck. Anyone on the Elite must be kicking themselves for their stupidity.