@Rob *******

weird

Was it your first Wise transfer?

@Doug *******

ok. I don't know your lady, but generally divorced with children is no sinsod. If you are taking care of her that is enough.

@Ryan ***

100%

@Doug *******

is there a family member who speaks a english can help you discuss this with MIL?

How well do you get on with the parents? Negotiate. I was initially told 5 baht gold but then they said nothing because you take care family and love daughter. IMHO if the lady has had children, worked in a bar or been in a relationship before then Sinsod should just be a token amount of gold say 1 or 2 baht. Any cash on display at the wedding should be clearly decided whose it is and what happens with it after the wedding.

@Bobby *******

what was noted as the work on your work permit? They are usually specific. I have not heard of multi-purpose work permits before.

@Zai *****

a work permit only allows the stipulated work. Not any work.

@Tony *****

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