I have never met a Thai woman who admitted being in the slightest bit at fault in a previous relationship. And when a Thai woman says she doesn’t like Thai men that is a bit of a red flag.
I had the same impression. They're always testing you, forcing the man to be macho. I'm happily stuck in Pattaya; it suits me better. But it's important to have male friends because I need people I can TALK to.