Stop reading them. If in your life, you find your thoughts and feelings dominated by others, it’s time to retune back into reality.

Also, it’s too hot to cook inside. But in an apartment there is usually no outside kitchen. Also, you can wash your clothes by hand. Many Thais do this.

People who use services value their time NOT doing something more than the money it costs. So they have a surplus of money and a lack of time and they want more time. You are experiencing first hand differences in culture which are when you think something is “wrong” or morally superior to what someone else considers “right”. Last, just remember, if you aren’t the one doing it, it’s none of your business. Feelings will follow suit.

Check numbeo.com and you can compare the cost of living per city (provided they have data)

Border run.

@Sonny *********

no one wants fair. They all wants things in their advantage. If it were fair, the immigration officer would make enough money on their salary.

No one is trying to scam me... Repeat this every day 100 times.

You can get a child support visa. Ask a visa company. If you have a Thai child, but are not married, you can get a visa so you can pay child support. Not sure how it works. Just saw an ad recently. Also, why are you asking for help and then arguing with every person who tries to help you. I think it is possible this is a bigger problem than your visa issues that you may need to solve.

Why don't you just ask the admin rather make another post?

@Hayley ********

just come to Thailand and then visit Cambodia before you've been here 30 days. You can get a tour from Bangkok to Angkor Wat in Siem Reap. About 2-3 days. Fly back to Thailand and reset the visa time.