I'm incredibly p####d off & disappointed with all the negative & sarcastic remarks
from this group resarcastic rcb
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The post expresses frustration over receiving sarcastic and negative comments in a community group focused on Thailand-related advice. Respondents generally acknowledge that while some comments may be unhelpful or rude, others find humor and valuable information within the group. There is a consensus that such reactions are common in online forums, where banter often accompanies serious inquiries, and advice is varied based on individual experiences. The community dynamics reflect a blend of support and playful antagonism, leading to mixed feelings about the group atmosphere.
Michael ******
Bye bye 👋 👋 🤭😂🤣
Mike *******
Surely not
Chris *********************
She's not back again is she miss bucket
Vin *********
So?
Ronald *********
I have a headache...
Han ********
Or you could have been appreciative of all the positive, helpful replies you got that fully answered your question. Instead you choose to focus on a couple negative replies. Welcome to Facebook.
Mike ******
I am to
Very bad
Mario **********
You just described 98.6% of all FaRcebook users, everywhere. Posting it here, in this group for everyone to read and respond with irony, will change the world.
Dave *********
Julie yeah sadly to many a$$.
They have nothing to do but give everyone grief. Sad.
Just ignore them. They have nothing to offer.
Many on the food groups also. Always finding issues where none exist.
Perhaps they don’t have normal or any moms. Moms say of u can’t say something positive say nothing.
Kǎisǎ **********
Stop reading them. If in your life, you find your thoughts and feelings dominated by others, it’s time to retune back into reality.
Rok ********
I do not know which bit you are referring to however this group compared to some others i follow (Bali, Mexico ..) is super civilised and friendly.
The groups are filled with two different types of people - Poindexter know-it-alls like Brandon Thurkettle or depressed angry old retired men with no lives.
so which category of person are you given you say there are only 2 types in this group ? ... 🤔
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Andy *******
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Alderyse ********
If you are being a crybaby about remarks you are most certainly not tough enough for The Kingdom.
Simon *********
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Bill ********
Bill ********
Then dont start a group if you are a Karen.
Stuart ************
Hi Julie , I agree, everyone knows that things can be googled but sometimes its nice to get a bit of insight from people , I was once told by a very wise person .. "IF YOU HAVE A QUESTION IT'S NOT STUPID AS THE QUESTION REQUIRES AN INTELLIGENT ANSWER or YOU WOULDN'T HAVE ASKED IT and if you don't ask it then WHO IS ACTUALLY THE STUPID PERSON for NOT ASKING? ..... plus how will you know the answer ? EVERYONE that has visited other countries for the first time had questions as it was their first time and the negative people forget THIS !!........ they were in the same boat at ONE STAGE asking the same so called STUPID QUESTIONS !! .. please be nice in these rooms guys and HELP THE NEWBIES for a change , NOT CRITICIZE THEM .. We WERE THEM ONCE .............................................. "BEFORE" whether a DAY or a CENTURY AGO !! ...... "We WERE THEM ONCE"
Stuart ************
Michael - I see your still making stupid decisions - can you speak a little louder I am having trouble hearing you from all the bullshit you are dribbling - why not take a day off you've got the rest of your life to annoy others which I think won't be hard for you to do - I am sorry - were you trying to insult and intimidate me - oh one last thing as I tire from our little banter as anyone that has paid any attention to U - well they were totally WRONG,- now shhhhh Mickey the adults have better things to do - I am sorry I didn't realise you were still here - okay I am going now Never to return as I don't have anymore time or crayons to explain anything else to you - now take the day off as you already know you have the rest of your life to annoy others with your dribble and all this is like a broken pencil to me - ---- pointless
Stuart ************
Wow you're even more annoying than you look Michael - did you just wake up or are you always this stupid as I am not arguing with you - I am just explaining why I am right and so the personality test is over - you passed the stupidity test top of the class - I actually was wondering what your problem is I am sure it's hard to pronounce but don't worry Id try to be kinder only if you were smarter
8 and a half years Sung's tai Kwon do - dipshit - eat little boys - I trained little boys to eat people like you for a snack PS pornhub gay section wants there money refunded from you
so you have the operation have you - who the fuk cares - boy - get a real life - I wouldn't be playing in the playground with the big boys if I were you - please cover your head or put a shirt over it fukstik
who made you king to pass judgement on me !! 1 dislike ( THATS YOU ) and if anymore DILLIGAF !!! it took me years to achieve a standard that you only wish you could ......... JEALOUSY must be suuuch a bitch
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Frank **********
I enjoy the comments, some are hilarious, some are rude and of course it's all entertaining.
Aaron *******
Agreed, unfortunately, most Thailand groups are filled with pathetic wannabe comics.
Brent ********
Go home!!!!!
Brent ********
Douche!
Guido **********
proud ??
Danny *************
Karen is outraged, I can feel the scrunched up face through her words.
The same thing happens in every other group I know. A wedding photographers group, or a product group about a watch, or a group about free stuff for the asking… ;)
Facebook is Facebook. Topic doesn’t matter - People are the same everywhere.
For one thing. There is not one bit of knowledge you should be listening to. It’s all couch potatoes lawyers. Only the official Thai embassy you should be getting facts through. Here it’s a get you thinking kinda thing. Other wise I have a bridge for sale.
Except that the official Thai Embassies have been known to get it wrong. They are run by the Ministry of Foreign Affairs, which is a completely separate government department to immigration and often the two don’t seem to communicate well.
I know exactly where you are coming from Julie. Do what I do and BLOCK sarcastic and negative remarks. It makes for a happier life free of some nasty farangs 🙏😃
Frazer ******
I'm not sure why you're P####d off as there were many giiving sound advice. Yes, you'll always encounter jokers 🃏 no-matter what site you're on.
Peter ********
Wot’s rcb.
Thomas *******
Bye bye Karen
Albert *******
It’s because for ONE they should delete the “and everything else “ part of the name for this group . It’s just an invitation for some weird people to post random garbage , and even NASTIER people to respond and post . But yes I agree with you , some of these guys here are down right irritating….
There's already a "Thai Visa Advice" group which is the sister group to this. They only allow only very specific questions and close comments once the answer has been provided by the moderators. This group is meant to be something different.
, in guessing that you're new to this group and ones like it 🤔
I've experienced much worse than you have in a couple of Thailand related groups that I've been in for the past couple of years. It seemed a 'big mistake' to put up a Post about my meeting a beautiful Thai lady on my holiday to Thailand. The number of responses to my post was way beyond what I expected. Roughly 50% were negative, or outright rude, though not quite so bad in this group. My advice is 'thicken your skin' a little and ignore the negative comments, but if they are really rude, block the people, so you don't see their comments and they don't see anything from you. I've blocked a small number of people and others I've just ignored their comments. Sometimes you'll also find that someone who does comment negatively occasionally, can sometimes also provide good information to group members. Being an Aussie, I've found a higher number of negative types in the "Australians in Thailand" group than this one.
Look at their profile. They asked if they needed a visa for 9 weeks at the beach. Never visited the embassy website for their home country; they didn’t mention their country. It was way too vague.
Then they ghosted the thread.
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Bonnie *********
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Peter *****************
Dude get lost if you don't appreciate.Dick brain.
Pierre *******
Do you realize that your post contains the same negative energy than many of the comments you despise?
Bill *******
Ehat do they say … ask a stupid question, get s stupid answer. In school they wouls say there is no dumb question. ZyES there is!!
Andy *******
Jason *******
I might be to old what does rcb
Stand for
Is this a pro noun thing or something else
Shane ***********
James *********
Thank you for your service 🐕🦺
Deborah **********
I got my question answered by a smart ass and I told him so. Later I had one more question and my smart ass answered and commented what do you think of your smart ass now?
I agree, that seems to be a spreading disease among people who use social media.
Apparently there are some who use it mostly to annoy, ridicule and offend other people, no matter how childish that is.
I started blocking everyone who makes those kind of remarks a while ago. And after a while it started to work, less and less childish remarks.
Manfred **********
Just because you don't like the info people are providing despite your rudimentary status info doesn't mean they are bad. It only means you are badly prepared or delusional.
I like guessing countries when no info is provided. If it’s a particularly vague or cringeworthy, I assume it’s being asked by someone from my home country.
I’m 90% correct.
I have learned to be very clear in asking questions because of groups like this.
When I am clear, have tried finding info elsewhere, I’ll use the search feature here, and if I need clarification, I will ask.
Studies have shown that doing a bit of research on your own helps retain information.
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James ***********
Land of Smiles inDEED Khap?
🌿😁 we are so stoked that since July 2022 we can all chill, go to the local dispensary and PHIL POT with….
( Northern Thai sticky organic 🌿🔥 is the best …and supports our host country with HIGH paying jobs)
Ian **********
If you don't like some of the answers posted, I suggest you go somewhere else and complain and bitch to someone who cares ....
John ********
One of the funnest Groups on FB
Jared **********
Stupid questions get stupid answers, you must be in a state of constantly being pissed off
Edward ******
Well done Andy.
Andy *******
Looks like you could do with some meditation to learn how to cope in the world ... Sort through the good and bad answers taking only the good info .. why would you need to get P'ss'd off or disappointed, that's your choice to get stuck on the negative ... Learn to chill and move on because no one's here to comfort your whining, only you can brighten your day .. try harder 😊👍
I think you misunderstand the sense of humor that the Brits and the Aussies have but if you don't like these comments you certainly won't like it when they're drinking! 🤣🤣🤣
I can't really speak for the British sense of humour and it being rude, as I moved from England to Australia in the early 1970's. The Australian sense of humour can be very good, but yes, quite a few 'MEN' think that rudeness is funny - Wrong!
Sometimes yes and sometimes no, it depends what they're saying and how they're saying it. I'm just a Yank/Kraut to them and so I understand what you mean but one has to have thick skin in the world today or we'd be walking around pissed off all the time. I have found the easiest way to quiet them down is to drink them under the table 🤣😜😉
Without a liquor store in every corner this country would have been a better place to live...And way less violent. Especially towards women. Aussie men are cowards who drink alcohol as a liquid courage substance
Read the pertinent stuff and just ignore the rest. Just look at it as entertainment. It’s FB for goodness sake and almost all free speech…😎✌️🧡
Pascal ********
All the people that post or answer something I don't like I block, easy and bye bye 😂.
Henrik *****
Because people don’t use the search function before posting a question,the same basic questions have to be answered again and again, and that get quite anoying for those who are using this group repeatedly.
Lynnette *******
Sarcasm is annoying but to be expected on some posts. I can scroll by. The bit that I don't like is targeting individuals, sending abusive personal messages.
Craig *******
No way, Im watching the 1976 movie Network right now, maybe you can lean out your window and yell im as mad as hell and im not going to take it anymore...😄
Or invest in a paper travel book, Lonely Planet or Moon still provide good Asia centric books. Tons of valuable information.
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James **************
This group is FAR from bad, I read through the comments on your last post and the worse ones are mild. And I believe there are helpful comments on it as well.
Paul ********
Thanks for telling us! May I suggest rolling a fat joint, ordering a cocktail and chilling out! 🕶
Yorgos **************
Many times, the answers we are given are the most appropriate for the questions we ask.
Andre *********
Just ignore that morones and block them for the future. After a while you've filtered out all the idiots.
Not quite. And they didn't "whine when they didn't get what they want". They responded back to all the nasty, obnoxious, off-the-cuff comments that make them feel good instead of just ignoring what is being asked and keep scrolling. But of course some here have just carried their nastiness from their home country. Moving didn't make them any better people.
And your statement that they should look at the embassy website is pretty useless. If you go to the NYC Thai Embassy website there is no obvious information on any other type of website other than a Tourist Visa. Nothing on education, retirement or marriage. Nothing on elite. Nothing except tourist. You have to know to click the Tourist Visa application link.
And in reality, half the comments here never would have been said in person. Just keyboard warrior nonsense.
It's really great that you know everything from traveling here so many times. Maybe after the OP has been as often as you they will be an expert like yourself.
Feel free to make personal attacks now. That always gives you great credibility I'm sure.
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Donna **********
I completely agree 💯. But the advice is good just have to get through the bull.
Stuart ******
ignore what is of no value
Mike ******
I just read your previous post and it seems you got the correct answer in several options, but maybe you just want something you don't qualify for.
Robert ***********
I agree that there are some pompous AH's on here and are experts on providing condescending comments and sparky responses.
I will say that I read your original post and there were numerous people trying to help you and when they asked you questions, you didn't reply.
You never answered where you were traveling from or what visa you had. Important information. Had you done so the responses may had been different.
Good luck.
Paul *****************
Don't be offended, just be resilient.
Take things with a grain of salt .
It's ok.
Detlef ***********
Stuart *********
You’ve been in this group under a month. Have posted one question (other than this) and seem surprised that out of 55,000 people there may be some people who are sarcastic.
Your other question sort of negates the comment here that you know the basics. I’ll skip over the part where you don’t expect to be treated like an idiot. I don’t know you so can’t say one way or the other.
Most come here to find answers about stuff about Thailand. Many regular posters and viewers here get tonnes of information. They are well aware that they may need to scroll past some of the negative or sarcastic comments to glean the right info but that’s the pros and cons of a site like this.
From a moderator point of view or even the sites owners one person who is pissed off isn’t really going to be of any interest to anyone.
Why would we change our style to fit around you? What about the other 55,000 people that seem to be ok with our style? Every single person in this group has the choice of staying or leaving.
Peter **********
I am incredibly disappointed with your negative post. Shall we both jump off a high tower, or do you think that life continues after breathing in and out a few times? 😳
Martin *******
Just hear to watch the comments 😃
Cris ******
I find that usually when people comment sarcastic or uh like she says. The original post is either dumb or could’ve been an easy search.
that's the real answer . so many people can't take any sarcasm..any joke any fun any pleasure .
they can just keep asking the most stupid questions , for the great pleasure of sarcastic funny people who like to make a good joke because that's how humour works .
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James **************
I'm incredibly happy and impressed by all the sarcastic and negative comments.
Rini *********
Bye
Sheldon *******
this isn't your grandma's dinner table, must be your first day on the internet. 🤷♂️
Jon ********
Get used to it. Most of the expats are burned out cynical far right conspiracy theory cheap Charlie racists with absolutely nothing to contribute to the debate other then trolling.
I think I rather agree with your Comments . Why do I say this? -I have got a lot of information from Forums online -I made the mistake of thinking that everything /opinion was true . I am lucky to have a Thai wife to ask for what is real/Unreal advice .I think now I go through a sifting process to find what is Real /Unreal advice .
I enjoy it and i'm actually one of the best people on Facebook nowadays.
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Xjwhudkwhry ********
Let me guess, you're one of those individuals who've never heard of Google?
Jx ******
You book a trip first, give very little info on your nationality/passport status.
Then can't even do basic google...
I wonder why people are sarcastic, I wouldn't book a weekend holiday without checking the bare basics first.
Matthew **********
There are some very knowledgeable and helpful people in this group. I’m very grateful for the advice I have received from them. Quite literally life changing advice. Of course there are the negative and sarcastic individuals here. What they post is more about them than you. Best to ignore unpleasant people. My tactic is to raise the bar by asking, “If you’re going to be sarcastic, you best be funny”, when I ask questions on Facebook. The results have been really enjoyable! Anyway, focus on the good people and best of luck to you, Julie.
As long as you allow for a few childish, sarcastic, comments. it won't bother you so much. In general, this is a excellent very useful group.
Richard *********
I find this place a mine of information and advice. Plan to move here and this group has insights and experiences of both good and bad. Yes there's some banter. If you don't like . Leave ?
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Julie **********
ORIGINAL POSTER
Just for the record, I have been to koh samui before, for stays longer than 30 days. I know the rudiments of what to do, am.just fishing for a bit of extra advice. I did not expect to be treated like an idiot
if you've been there 30 days in a row you might know and have seen everything there is to know . if you like it so it so mich why don't you rent a place and keep exploring . meeting people on the spot like every smart traveller does should also help .
don't take shit seriously Julie, unless it's serious shit, and chat on the internet is anything but serious if you've got yer head screwed on correctly! There's a wealth of great info to be had here in this group, along with the stuff you don't like. If the tomfoolery is too much for you, simply post and participate in the other group or not, "up to you". 👍🙏
I understand what you mean but I think just ignore those people as you still can get genuine responses. Clearly if they have better things to do, they wouldn't need to be online making sarcastic, passive -aggressive comments to random people's posts.
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Tisha ***********
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Robert ******
2 things,
1. use the block function a lot.
2. Ask a sensible questions, remember we don't know anything about you and can't hear the conversation in your head 🤷♂️
Such a shame as this and other Thai advice groups could be a mine of helpful information. The internet has provided a vehicle for the world's assholes to display just how childish adults can be.
As you've already found out few care what you think so either ignore, block or use google for your info.
"could be a mine of helpful information." I mean, it looks like it's helped you out? You're always more than welcome to fk off if you don't like it here.
I read his comment as “it’s a mine of helpful information, but too bad it’s also been infiltrated by a-holes” — it was zero offensive to the platform you moderate. Calm down?
Honestly,Stuart, and we’ve had this discussion before, google (well, I use DuckDuckGo) is quite valuable as a resource. The clearer you are with your query, the better the results.
You can get garbage responses anywhere.
I would hope people considered their questions before posting, and that would limit sarcasm.
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Bonnie *********
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Julie ***********
You will always get someone with a smart sarcastic remark but thay goes for any group your on. Better to just scroll on by if you don't like the answer rather than getting upset by it.
Once a group .. almost any group on FB gets very large, this is to be expected sadly. Keep in mind - there are actually more and perhaps better sources of information readily available for your informational needs on line. Jai yen yen Krap. 🤨
Vinn *********
William ************
Yes , have seen a lot of help from smart ass’s . Maybe nothing better to do than enjoyed people.
not joking this group is free form.. you can ask anything and reply anything that group your question needs to legit and you only get awnsers based on actual law not gray bribe type things... diffrent strokes for diffrent fokes
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Terary **********
You may like that group.. They kicked me out of there.
The OP is more than welcome join our sister group. They have very different moderation styles from us. Some like their style. Others hate it. Each to their own. Member numbers wise we surpassed them last month or so so it may indicate which way is more preferred or it just may be stats.
They turn off comments. That may suit your style or it may frustrate the hell out of you by wanting to provide an answer but not being able to. Your call. Different ways of doing things.